Changing Communications to Change the Conflict

Posted By admin on February 3, 2010

If you keep saying the same thing, you’ll keep getting the same thing. The Palestinians and Israelis may be changing their communications to change their conflict. 

logo tablet mag Changing Communications to Change the Conflict

 http://www.tabletmag.com/news-and-politics/24895/herzliya-diary/

Business Divorce Helped by Mediation

Posted By admin on January 27, 2010

An excellent article on how a mediator can help a business through its break-up (divorce).

http://www.mediate.com/articles/lutringerR1.cfm?nl=245#

4 Things to Think About for a Successful Negotiation

Posted By admin on January 25, 2010

Negotiations require disciplined thinking. There is no way around this fact. The first step for any negotiation is that both people are able to articulate their own interests and concerns and both people are able to understand the other person’s interests and concerns. To do this, there are 4 things to think about for a successful negotiation.

In order to keep your negotiation arguments relevant and focused, you must be able to analyze the interests and concerns of the person you are negotiating with and apply your arguments to that person’s interest and concerns. This requires answering four questions: 

  1. What are the things the other person wants from you?
  2. What problem are they relying upon you to fix?
  3. How do they think you can improve their situation?
  4. What are the two or three most compelling reasons that your position addresses their interest and concerns?

If you fail to address the other person’s interest and concerns, they shall tune out, and your negotiation will most likely be unsuccessful.

Managing Workplace Conflict is a Benefit

Posted By admin on January 19, 2010

An interesting discussion on how conflict can benefit a workplace.

TTheader Managing Workplace Conflict is a Benefit

http://training-time.blogspot.com/2009/03/how-workplace-conflict-can-be-positive.html

Conflict Resolution versus Conflict Management

Posted By admin on January 10, 2010

Do you really want conflict resolution in your workplace? By definition, the word resolution means that something is resolved, that there’s an end. That end, however, is not necessarily a positive outcome. In many resolutions, there’s a winner and a loser. Of course, the winner is happy, and the loser is certainly not.

It’s conflict resolution vs. conflict management.

In my opinion, the real goal for the business owner is conflict management, not conflict resolution. A goal of eliminating, avoiding, and suppressing conflict is an unrealistic dream. Rather, the focus should be on managing the conflict and providing tools and methods for employees to effectively engage in conflict.

Conflict costs businesses an excessive amount of time, money, and energy. In order to manage the conflict, your focus should be on developing employees’ abilities and providing methodology to raise and address conflict efficiently, effectively, and respectfully.

You should be creating a Conflict Management System that focuses on three major components:

  • Skills – Providing training that improves basic communication, interpersonal, and conflict management skills.
  • Structure – A set of procedures that establish methods for reporting conflict, for investigating a complaint, and for discovering solutions.
  • Support – The business or organization needs to provide support for the system by modeling and mentoring conflict management skills as well as following the procedures fairly and completely.

A Dispute Settled

Posted By admin on December 28, 2009

A dispute settled where public outcry forced the disputants to focus on their true interests and concerns.

http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=114068612

8th Night of Chanukah

Posted By admin on December 18, 2009

The Jewish holiday of Chanukah begins this week. The holiday is based on the story of the Maccabees, who are heroes because they beat the powerful Assyrian empire. During the holiday we light eight candles. This is symbolic of the candelabra oil that was too limited to last more than one day, and miraculously, lasted eight days.

The Chanukah candles are to remind us that we are to spread light as far as we can. I recently read a suggestion from Rabbi Abraham Isaac Kook that we should each look at ourselves as a living Chanukah candle capable of spreading our own inner light in the world.

Each night of Chanukah I’ll be posting one of my favorite Chanukah songs as a reminder that we each have the ability to spread our inner light and be a hero to someone else in the world.

7th Night of Chanukah

Posted By admin on December 17, 2009

The Jewish holiday of Chanukah begins this week. The holiday is based on the story of the Maccabees, who are heroes because they beat the powerful Assyrian empire. During the holiday we light eight candles. This is symbolic of the candelabra oil that was too limited to last more than one day, and miraculously, lasted eight days.

The Chanukah candles are to remind us that we are to spread light as far as we can. I recently read a suggestion from Rabbi Abraham Isaac Kook that we should each look at ourselves as a living Chanukah candle capable of spreading our own inner light in the world.

Each night of Chanukah I’ll be posting one of my favorite Chanukah songs as a reminder that we each have the ability to spread our inner light and be a hero to someone else in the world.

6th Night of Chanukah

Posted By admin on December 16, 2009

The Jewish holiday of Chanukah begins this week. The holiday is based on the story of the Maccabees, who are heroes because they beat the powerful Assyrian empire. During the holiday we light eight candles. This is symbolic of the candelabra oil that was too limited to last more than one day, and miraculously, lasted eight days.

The Chanukah candles are to remind us that we are to spread light as far as we can. I recently read a suggestion from Rabbi Abraham Isaac Kook that we should each look at ourselves as a living Chanukah candle capable of spreading our own inner light in the world.

Each night of Chanukah I’ll be posting one of my favorite Chanukah songs as a reminder that we each have the ability to spread our inner light and be a hero to someone else in the world.

5th Night of Chanukah

Posted By admin on December 15, 2009

The Jewish holiday of Chanukah begins this week. The holiday is based on the story of the Maccabees, who are heroes because they beat the powerful Assyrian empire. During the holiday we light eight candles. This is symbolic of the candelabra oil that was too limited to last more than one day, and miraculously, lasted eight days.

The Chanukah candles are to remind us that we are to spread light as far as we can. I recently read a suggestion from Rabbi Abraham Isaac Kook that we should each look at ourselves as a living Chanukah candle capable of spreading our own inner light in the world.

Each night of Chanukah I’ll be posting one of my favorite Chanukah songs as a reminder that we each have the ability to spread our inner light and be a hero to someone else in the world.